19 December 2015

Finding my "music"


Following from my last blog entry – in case you have not realized, the questions aren’t so much directed to you (the reader) as it is to me - myself.  It is more a recording of my internal dialogue – speaking with myself .. and sometimes even in the midst of writing, there is already an inner voice shouting out an answer to the question (at times quite different from what is in my head – what I was intending to write).


A long time ago when I was in the US and was keeping a journal of sorts, I used to consider it my dialogue with my “master” – a spiritual teacher, if you like, who is there to challenge me while guiding me on a path I was not all too aware (fully aware) of.  Sometimes it felt (still feels) like it was (is) the voice of God, not so much admonishing me but more like challenging me to expand my view and thinking.  But as I had said before – who cares what you call it (that voice). A teacher, God, the Universe or simply just me myself .. perhaps a “higher” self? I don’t know. But it doesn’t really matter as this is all a part of the journey of self discovery and growth.  So I hope no one takes offense to what is being said (or written) as it is my path – a path for me to walk. And if it applies to you too, GREAT. And if not, dump it and move on (or offer your own thoughts to challenge mine – challenge as in broaden my own thinking. Food for thought kinda thing).


So anyway – Finding my music. What is my music anyway?  I have been reading an e-book I checked out from the city library here.  Heard of this a long time back, but I never got around to looking it up and purchasing it.  Now, I don’t have to purchase it as I can check it out from the library – tho I am not quite sure how a library checks out an e-book? Does it disintegrate after 14 days (the allotted time for the check out)? How do I go about “returning” an e-book that has been downloaded onto my computer? I guess – this too is a learning process. Something new – but here I go digressing again. The book? It’s by Dr. Wayne Dyer – I Can See Clearly Now.  Sort of an autobiography, I guess.  Good book.  Even though I am only at the start with only 12.44% covered (these e-books are great – they even tell you how much of the book you have covered) – it is fascinating. Explains a lot about how he came to be who he is (or was). In it, he describes his dharma and how he “came upon” it.  That makes me wonder – is this similar to my own dharma?
I want to be able to share my thoughts and my journey – to be able to speak my mind (and my heart). I have long envisioned having a place that is open to all to come to and visit.  A place that has lots of books and stuff for people to look through – to borrow, to take away, to buy – however they want to do it. A place people can stop and just chill out and ponder things. And I would be so happy to be present to share my thoughts and experiences and to learn from the “travellers” who choose to stop by and willing to share their own thoughts and experiences. In a way – this blog is already the beginning of that, don’t you think?

Two years ago when I visited Arrowstown, that was my “vision.”  I came across what many would call a “new age” type of shop. What attracted me to this quaint little shop of course are the little figurines of dragons. (Yeah, I have a fascination for dragons – tho I am no expert on the various types of dragons there are. And NO I was not born in the year of the dragon.  Perhaps – I was a dragon in a previous life.  I don’t know. But anyway – a little trivial info about me. So in case anyone wants to buy me a gift or something – now you know what you can get – one of the many things. Hahaha). But not just dragons, there were also angels and other religious type figurines – like the laughing Buddha and so on.  There were crystals and feel good signs; books, dvds, and stuff like that.  I thought to myself – this is what I would like to have .. but more open and not a small little shop hidden near the back or the corner. You know? Something more open - brighter. I don’t mind the small space – but it has to be brighter and more in the flow of things so people can just stop in and take a look around.  Not so much a business place – but some place to just stop and chill.  At one point when discussing this with my brother – something he said even had me visualize like an old barn – detached from the main house.  It is stacked with books all around (not neatly stacked like in a library) with some somewhat faded and maybe even a little dusty stools and chairs and wooden crates people could sit on to read – may be even a rock. There may even be broken tiles on the roof of the barn letting in a stream of light into the old barn. Can you see it? With the light showing like dust particles floating in the air type deal?  Ahhh – still so clear in my head.


Of course that idea was not new to me then (two years ago) tho some aspects were.  I mean, I have always wanted a place that has lots of books – old books, stuff – old used stuff (not necessary antiques) – and also a sort of café like setting where people can get a cup of coffee, tea, hot chocolate whatever – to drink and maybe a snack to munch on while they browse the stuff there or to sit and read.

Is this going to be my dharma? Is this (not going to bebut IS) MY dharma? Is this not too late a stage for me to only now be finding out my purpose? Again to cite Dr. Dyer – in one of the many PBS programs he made – one of them entitled, “Your reality is created by your thoughts,” he introduced to us Louise Hay. It’s not that I have never heard of Louise before.  As those of you who are into self-help and spiritual well-being may know, Louise is the founder of one of the world’s largest publisher of these spiritual and high-consciousness materials (self-help books and dvds etc.) – Hay House.  What I didn’t know was she made a “shift” at the age of 60 and started this publishing company.  She also wrote her a book entitled “You Can Heal Your Life.” If she can do it – then why not me? She was 60 when she did that – and I am not even quite there yet, so how can I be too old to find my purpose?  Also, finding my purpose now does not mean that everything in the past was not a part of that purpose.  They could all have been a build up to it. In fact, not a “could have been” but certainly IS – after all, everything that we are today is shaped by our experiences along life’s journey.  Further more, today’s purpose may not be tomorrow’s purpose either.  I might have had a calling to be a teacher once, and then a counsellor and later a writer or a painter or a gardener.  Life unfolds as it will; everything happens with a divine purpose at the appropriate time.

 
And so – I want to make a difference in the life of others.  I want to be able to contribute to the well-being of the world – fellow travellers like me (and we are all travellers) on our journey home.  I believe that is what I am called to do – and that is why I am in NZ.  Why NZ? I still don’t know – but the fact that I am here NOW – is enough to indicate to me that this is indeed the place I am called to be. I am exactly where I need to be – and yet so much more will unfold as I go along.
That’s it for now.  As always – thanks for joining me on this journey.



Shalom,
Syl



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